Gentleness Part 2

As the anniversary of Jesus' death & resurrection are now "over," they are quickly forgotten by most. Until next year anyway. I pray this is not the case with us, my friends.

There are a lot of ways to describe the cross & the things Jesus did while on the cross but gentleness is not always one that comes to mind.

Tortured...Definitely. Grueling...Yes. Dark...Of course. Gentle??? Hardly.

Except when you know the outcome & the ending of the story & you decide to take a step back & try to see it from a different perspective...Then you can see gentleness.

I hardly think His being beaten, mocked, abused, spit on, & cursed for MY sins is gentle. But, if gentleness is one of His traits, then He is gentle always & without fail. As I thought about this, I read through each gospel to see the different words spoken & the different perspectives & I noticed a few things.

Matthew 26~As the high priest was looking to charge Jesus with anything in order to condemn, he said, "Tell us if you are the Son of God." Here's where I first saw gentleness: "Jesus replied, 'You have said so.'" He didn't get upset or angry or roll His eyes...He didn't get smart with him or point out the obvious thousands of miracles He had performed in the most recent days. He simply spoke the truth ~ gently.

Mark 16~As the women went to prepare Jesus' body with anointing spices, they never had to figure out who would roll the stone away! In the open grave, they saw a man sitting there who told them to "Go & tell His disciples AND PETER." I emphasize Peter for a reason. Yes, to the faithful He shows Himself faithful, which is why I believe this man said go & tell His disciples; But Peter? Geesh ~ He denied Jesus! In this day & age, that is normal & many people follow one thing but in the thick of the throes, they declare another. Not in Jesus' day, though. So why would God speak into this man, telling him to specifically add Peter? I have come to this conclusion: WE DENY JESUS ALL THE TIME! Whether it's with our words, actions, lack of action, or attitudes...Our disobedience is a form of denial. This is why the scriptures tell us to deny our flesh & take up His cross. I found it very moving that God wanted us to know that EVEN PETER was to be included...And His gentle way of letting us know that every time we deny Him, He is there to welcome us back.

Luke 23~As one of the condemned criminals shouted at Jesus to save himself, mocking whether or not He really was the Messiah, the other noticed his guilt & His innocence. "Don't you fear God? Since you are under the same sentence? We are punished justly, for we are getting what our deeds deserve. But this man has done no wrong." He then turns to Jesus (and I imagine with tears in His bloodied eyes) & asks Him to "Remember me when You come into Your Kingdom." Did Jesus laugh at him or go through the laundry list of things that, in fact, this criminal had done wrong? Nope! He simply & gently said, "Truly I tell you, today you will be with Me in Paradise." He could have laughed at him thinking, 'Sure, NOW you want to believe in Me' or rolled His eyes thinking...'Did I not prove myself long before this unbearable cross?' He didn't do those fleshly things, though. He stayed true to Himself & His character & gently led this filthy man, who was at that moment washed white as snow, into Paradise with Him.

The gentleness of the cross is a different perspective ~ I'll admit. But don't you think if we are charged with "being like Him," that we should turn these God-breathed scriptures inside & out searching for His Ways & His truths? And wouldn't that include reading & rereading & looking through different eyes to see the totality of Him?

Jesus was gentle all the time. The bible says, "I am God. I change not." Never. Not once. And this can be modeled to our children as we are raising them to be Christ-minded. When they don't follow your instruction the first time, gently remind them. When they come running back to you telling you that you were (shock of all shocks!!!) right, don't mock the growth in their learning. Do you have a limit of how many times your children can disobey you before you put them up for adoption? OF COURSE NOT! You sit them down & you discuss their choice. THIS IS PRIME TIME ladies~Teach them when they are in that moment that He tells us that we are "all sheep who have gone astray" but then proceeds to tell us that if EVEN ONE wanders, He will retrieve it. Then give them a hug~for they just gained a bit more wisdom!

Listen to Jesus' gentle voice today. Sometimes it's more of a lightening bolt, yes...But other times, you can hear the gentle thunder rolling in the distance if you just stay still long enough to listen.

Gently speaking ~

Fancy Nancy Day

I have some exciting news!!!!!! It's about Fancy Nancy but if you don't know who Fancy Nancy is, you may not be that excited. She is a spunky little girl who loves words ONLY when they're fancy! Her favorite color: Fuchsia....because Purple is too plain. Her favorite treat: Parfaits....because an ice cream sundae is for plain people. I love Fancy Nancy! I have nearly all of her books & always enjoy rereading them.

Now for the exciting news: I'm hosting a Fancy Nancy day! On May 6, from 9:00 - 12:00, your girl(s), ages 5-10, can join me & other girls for a fancy day! This day will include reading, writing, & most importantly ~ arts & crafts! Your child will not only read & listen to some of Fancy Nancy's books, but will create lists of fancy words, have a fancy snack, & do a very fancy arts & crafts project. Your sweet girl is encouraged to dress up in fancy clothes, but please keep in mind we will be using glue, watercolor paints, washable markers, & crayons. You know your child! If her day will be ruined by getting a drop of paint on her shirt, perhaps you want to send her with a larger old t-shirt for her to cover up with while we work. :o) I will also be focusing on the scripture Deuteronomy 7:6, "The LORD your God has chosen you out of all the peoples on the face of the earth to be his people, his treasured possession." We will learn (through Fancy Nancy's help) that we were each chosen to be just the way we are & while each of us is different, we have one very important thing that is the same: God loves all of us & has chosen each one of us to be His treasured possession. Our arts & crafts project will have something very special to do with our individual names!!!

If you are interested in your child attending, please email me at scritzer711@gmail.com as soon as you can to let me know your child will be in attendance. My limit will be 7 girls but should I have more interested, I will consider adding a 2nd day to accommodate. The price for this one day mini-camp is $25 & will be due to reserve your spot one week prior, on April 29. This will give me ample time do my final preparations & purchase the necessary items. This fee is unfortunately non-refundable.

I can't wait for this day & look forward to sharing it with your daughter! Email me soon as the 7 spots are being filled quickly!

Gentleness Part 1

When you think of the word gentleness, what do you think?

~The sweet grasp of a newborn baby
~The brush of your adoring husbands hand upon your shoulder
~The wind breezing by you on a beautiful spring morning
~Your best friend walking side-by-side in silence as you purchase a dress for a funeral never planned

I have a million other examples ~ as I'm sure you do as well. But do you also think ~as we are called to do~ about the gentleness of our Lord?

~He sat & listened to the woman at the well, when no one else would come near her
~He prompted the heart of Boaz towards a woman working in his field
~He posed a rhetorical sentence to the angry crowd: He who is without sin may cast the first stone. And when they were all gone, the woman was left there with Him...Who did not yell or chastise her, but rather said, "Go and put away your sins."
~The heart of a 9 year old girl heard a whisper alone in her bed & she knew that voice was Jesus

Are there stories where Jesus was mad or God sent down His angst against His people? Of course. But time & time again, when I pick up God's Word, He reveals His gentleness to my heart, reminding me that no matter my sin, he will never pull me back to His will kicking & screaming, but rather whisper in my ear His ways ever so gently until I follow. Gentleness is controlled strength. God can slam you straight back into you place (and, ahemmm....maybe He has deemed that necessary sometimes) but most instances, He nudges you or speaks through someone or whispers into your heart every so slightly ~ with gentleness.

When you were holding your precious infant those first few days of their life, weren't you praying over his/her life & all the things he/she would become? Didn't you create a picture in your mind of health & happiness of a child who grows up to be a lover of Christ, a giver of His love, showing kindness to others? But your children aren't perfect, are they? And I'm sure they never let you down either. Let me guess ~ All of their chores are done with a smile & every word is spoken in love & no one rolls their eyes at you, right? Wait....wait ......Ohhhhhh, that was God's plan for us, not the sinful, fleshly world we live in today. Well let me pose this question then...Do you forgive your children when they make a mistake? Do you tell them they can do a better job next time & that you are still proud of all they are trying to learn? Do you remind them with gentleness that we don't eat the bread of idleness & that our house won't clean itself & then make chores fun? When they use unkind words or roll their eyes for the 3 millionth time, do you show them by your own words how they can choose differently next time?

God remembers our sins. He created us & knows our every detail, remember? But He doesn't leave us there. He guides us gently ~ and yes, sometimes with a necessary rebuke ~ back to Him. He remembers holding us as a tiny embryo, delicately making us into who we are today. He sits back & watches as we take our first steps with the very feet he fashioned. He recalls painting our fingerprints & the color of our eyes just as vividly as He recalls paining the sunset in the thousands of colors we see. He's Our Abba ~ Our Father. And as we are trusted with children, we need to also gently guide them back into His arms. We need to help lead them back to His Word .. reminding them of His gentleness we are to display ..

"He tends His flock like a shepherd, He gathers the lambs in His arms and carries them close to His heart..."

"Here is my servant in whom I uphold, my chosen one in whom I delight."

"Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle & humble in heart..."

Be gentle today ~ Your children will see this beautiful trait of Our Abba through you ~ And will hopefully listen the next time He is speaking to them ~

Synonymous

I'm teaching several sweeties about synonyms these days. It enriches their vocabulary, allows them to have more colorful writing, shows them more patterns in the world ... But it also helps with understanding. A child's understanding of a word comes from what they know. Maybe it's what they know about that word ~ Perhaps they use the context of the rest of the sentence to draw the meaning ~ Most often though, someone has explained it to them.

As I was again studying faithfulness, I came across a devotion which made a wonderful connection to a very familiar word: Reliability.

I can list at least 25 instances in which someone or something in my life has not been reliable. No hurt feelings (well, not now anyway. ;o) ) ~ only learned lessons....A lot of which were for the betterment of my own self so I am thankful for these circumstances.

I'm sure you know where this is going. You know who hasn't let me down? Yep ~ God! The One who created this entire universe ~ The One who spoke me & this sweet baby growing inside of me into existence ~ The One who gave up His only Son to become my sin on this earth.

"For in that He Himself has suffered, being tempted, He is able to aid those who are tempted."

I'm tempted to fight back with the ones who "wrong" me. I am tempted to stomp my foot & put them in their correct place. I am tempted to make sure they know just how they are making me feel. Thankfully, I know my Shepard. And I pray at least a billion times a day, "Set a watch, O Lord, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips." He is reliable & answers me. I...I am not. Sometimes I lose my cool & I fight back. But once again, I ask forgiveness & the Lord is reliable, welcoming me into His lap again, just as any good Abba does.

Faith itself is not something you usually see. We can attempt to show ourselves faithful or our faithfulness, but in our own flesh, we fail. God does not. As we teach our young ones about faith ~ being faithful & showing faithfulness ~ may we remember to teach them the synonym reliable. It may help them understand the bigger concept of "faithfulness." We will let our children down. Our children will let us down. Others will let us & our children down. But God will always be there & He will always understand. He is able to understand our every need, want, desire, & temptation.

"For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but rather one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are."

Go before Him ~ who is able to understand...Who can meet you where you are...Who will be reliable & listen to you, speaking truth over you as you pour your heart out to Him. And remind those precious children who just colored on the wall ...or mouthed off to you ...or disobeyed your instruction ...or has a hurt heart because someone ignored them at AWANA's tonight ...or wasn't included because they were "too little" ...or said something about someone which was less than pleasing to our Lord ...That He is Our Father who is always reliable ~ always faithful ~ and is always waiting for us to enter into His presence.

Waiting at the cross with you ~

His Faithfulness

I have been considering how faithful my "trail" will be when I leave this earth. The words God spoke to me regarding the last post were challenging!!! When you really think about how faithful you are in your daily circumstances & you are actively seeking to serve God through each of them, He will speak to you ...and I assure you He will let you know if you are or are not being faithful. (OUCH!)

Times when I was NOT faithful this past week...

~When I rolled my eyes at something someone said.

~When I didn't return my friend's phone call.

~When I didn't finish cleaning the house.

~When I opened facebook before I opened my bible.

~When I ate the 2nd cookie instead of keeping with my set limit.

~When I questioned God & asked, "Why???"

Times this week when God WAS faithful...

~When He gave me 6 straight hours of sleep, just as I thought I was getting sick.

~When He held a dear friend through a difficult surgery, followed by chemo & radiation that same week.

~When He provided for a financial need.

~When His answer was confirmed by 5 different people!

~When He loved me, as I was unlovable.



God doesn't waiver in His Faithfulness. EVER! Mine ~ eh....a little shaky I must admit. In my flesh, I want to make a comment back because "I know I'm right" or I become lazy & say "I'll do it later" when we are never guaranteed as much. From the beginning of time, He knew His love would be poured out on Calvary's cross for me. He knew His perfect Son would be blamed, beaten, & mocked for sin that is mine. He created a perfect plan for me, knew I would fall & yet is faithful to lead me back to it, no matter how many times I venture down the other path. He loves me...He loves you...And it is always unconditional, always faithful.

"However, the Lord your God, ...turned the curse into a blessing for you, BECAUSE HE LOVES YOU."

"I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with UNFAILING faithfulness."

"God is faithful, who called you into the fellowship..."

"God is faithful and will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear, ALWAYS providing a way of endurance."

"Be glad, ..rejoice in the Lord...BECAUSE HE IS FAITHFUL!"

"For the word of the LORD is right and true; he is faithful in ALL he does."

Think about this today as you are teaching your young ones. Are you teaching them faithfulness? Do they have responsibilities at home or are you always asking them to please clean their rooms or please walk the dog? Teaching faithfulness is also keeping your commitments. (Look out ~ this may hit a nerve!!!) Are you always late to where you are going? Do you plan too much in one day & then skip something they were really looking forward to "because you just couldn't find the time." (Although, you had time to talk to your friend for 20 minutes while your kiddos sat in the car.) Do you pray with them every day or just when you have time?

God has shown Himself faithful to me so many times I couldn't possibly count. The most pressing on my mind in this moment is the anticipated birth of our first child. After 5 1/2 years, we WOULD. NOT. BE. PREGNANT without His guiding, His leading, His patience poured on us, His mercy on our unfaithfulness, His perfect timing. God ~ Is ~ Faithful. Would you keep pursuing faithfulness down this trail of life with me? Don't give up ~ He has a prize waiting for us at the end! ;o)

The Trail of Faithfulness

How long does it take to show faithfulness? How long does it take to BE faithful? Think about those questions again ... At what point can you say someone has been faithful?

Yowsers ~ THAT is a loaded question, isn't it?!

Faithfulness is defined as, "reliable, trusted, believed; true to one's word or promise; loyal or constant." I love that last word. CONSTANT!

I was speaking to someone I hadn't seen in a while, telling them why I left public school education & started my own business, leading us into the conversation of the inevitable..."WHY home school?" (Another loaded question!) As I defended my stance & rattled off some scriptures & statistics, the conversation quickly moved onto other topics but it got me thinking about this journey we walk down on the trail of faithfulness.

Am I faithful in defending what I believe in God? Am I faithful to serving my husband each & every day? Am I a faithful daughter/sister/friend? Do I show faithfulness when I am working with my clients? Do I amplify that definition in my daily walk? In all these things, do I leave a trail of faithfulness for others to see?

So many people have noticed that I don't have children of my own, yet I am advising on how to "train up a child in the way he should go." Sometimes that stings. Mostly because that has been a period of trial for my husband & I. After 5 1/2 years of praying, waiting, tests & procedures, we continue to cling to Romans 12:12, "Rejoice in hope; be patient in affliction; be persistent in prayer." And now, I can finally announce that our first child is due October 1! We have learned much along this road ~ take none of it for granted ~ and will continue to give ALL the glory & honor & praise to HIM who has chosen us to be the parents of this precious child.

I digress though...(That was VERY exciting for me to write!!!! [grins, grins grins])Sometimes it stings. But mostly, it pushes me to delve deeper into God's Word to find wisdom & truth about how we should prepare ourselves for this life, and how we should prepare our children. One of the definitions of faithfulness was constant. Scripture says, "When I rise up, when I sit down, when I walk in the way..." That seems pretty clear to me at just how consistent we should be & this is also my reason for doing what I do!

As a home school parent, you have a golden opportunity to teach your child the ways in which the Lord wants us to lead our lives. You can intervene in arguments between your children, showing them how to handle conflict in a godly manner by loving & forgiving the one who has offended them. You can teach them about serving others, as you take one day each month & clean the home of an elderly church member. You can teach them the priceless gift of helping others as your older children assist your younger children with homework or difficult problems. You can teach them to love others more than themselves & when a sibling is having a rough day, they can come alongside them & pray over them, draw a picture for them, tickle them, and/or listen to them.

Just writing these things makes my heart want to explode with excitement, knowing these things can happen in so many homes!

So let me pose a few questions (and maybe a scripture that gives us guidance in regard to the answer) as we travel along this journey together...

~How does one develop a christian mind? ...Therefore, helping develop those sweet little ones watching your every move & listening to your every word & observing your every facial expression...
"Love the Lord your God with all your hear, with all your soul, and with all your mind." Mt. 22:37
"Set apart Jesus as Lord in your hearts and always be ready to give a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you." 1 Pt. 3:15

~How do I set a faithful example for my (family, children, office, friends)?
"Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness. Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him and He will act." Ps. 37:3-5

~How do I continue gaining in my knowledge of Jesus Christ, therefore passing it on to my children (setting an example to a neighbor, family member, etc.)?
"Faith comes through hearing, and hearing through the Word of Christ." Rom. 10:17

Being faithful is tough. Most days, I feel like the only thing I do that IS constant, is fail!!! But God calls us to stand firm in our faith. He asks us to work through our salvation. He charges us to give these battles over to Him & allow Him to work through & in our lives. He is the only One who is the true definition of faithfulness.

"He is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn over all creation; because by Him everything was created in heaven and on earth...all things have been created through Him and for Him. He is before all things and by Him all things hold together. He is also the head of the body, the church; He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, so that He might come to have first place in everything." Col. 1:15-18

Being faithful ~ showing faithfulness ~ is a journey. Part of the joy as we travel this journey & attempt to set an example for others is the fact that WHEN we fail, we can go to them, ask for forgiveness, & get right back up on our walk down the trail of faithfulness. Think about the power in THAT example for your little ones! And when you just. can't. go. on...Remember the One who IS faithfulness.


"If we have no faith, He will still be faithful for He cannot go against what He Is." 2 Tim. 2:13

Walking this journey of faithfulness WITH you ~

For GOODNESS sake

Goodness is a tough concept to teach, don't you think? Sure you may say to your sweet cherubs as you are leaving them for the evening, "Be good for (babysitter, grammy, etc.) so mommy & daddy will be proud of you!" Well, what parameters surround "being good?"

Good is defined as, "the state or quality of being good; moral excellence; generosity; the best part of anything." But what has your family taught your child(ren) about this word?

The bible says SOME of the following (one day you should look up the word good in your bible reference...Gracious we need to grow!):

Exodus 33 says, “I will cause all my goodness to pass in front of you, and I will proclaim my name, the LORD, in your presence. I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion."

Nehemiah said, "Even while they were in their kingdom, enjoying your great goodness to them..."

2 Chronicles says, "may your faithful people rejoice in your goodness.."

Psalm 23, "Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever."

Psalm 69 says, "Answer me, LORD, out of the goodness of your love; in your great mercy turn to me."

2 Peter says, "His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness."

Psalm 145 says, "They celebrate your abundant goodness and joyfully sing of your righteousness."

Hebrews 6 says, "who have tasted the goodness of the word of God..."

Did you notice who was good in those passages? Who was the one who IS good? Where does it come from? It is not something WE do; Rather it is something God cultivates in us, when we are His child. It's kind of like forgiveness...You aren't really the one forgiving...God's faithfulness to forgive you, allows you to invite forgiveness into your own heart, therefore forgiving those who sin against you. It's not YOU but the Lord. It's the same thing with goodness.

Being "good" can then mean honoring your Father with those things He has provided to you, showing His goodness in your life.

~Maybe He gave your arms & legs...Can you serve Him out of the goodness of His provision?
~Perhaps He provided you with a compassionate heart, filled with a listening ear...Can you listen out of the goodness He poured into you?
~Did He listen to your prayer request? Can you proclaim His goodness for hearing even you?

And for your sweet babies growing in the Lord...
~Did the Lord give them an extra portion of sharing EVERYTHING? Support them by telling them the stories in the bible of where God shared...His love, His forgiveness, His compassion, His mercy...His Son!
~Does your precious lamb struggle with "being good?" Can I challenge you to speak gently to them throughout the day when they need reminding of this? Write down the scriptures above or search on your own. Read about God's goodness everytime they need a reminder. Remember, it's a race to finish strong...Not just to finish!

The Lord IS GOOD! His goodness has shown itself real in my life ~yet again~ this very week. Funny that as I began praying what to write regarding goodness, He starts my thought process by showing His goodness in my life for a solid 4 days ~ EVERYWHERE! Need we a reminder of just how good God is...Look around & ask yourself ~ What do I see that is good, from the Lord. Find ONE thing...and now honor your Father by praising Him for His goodness. He will begin revealing all of His goodness if you allow your mind to focus on HIM.

So thankful for His goodness each & every day ~